For Parents

TRAUMA DRAMA article for VOYA magazine
Trauma in teens. What it looks like. How to help.

Returnable Girl
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How to Raise an out-of-control teenager
A sobering look on how to
screw up teens


MOTHER/DAUGHTER
Discussion Guide

Don't want you to miss it so I posted it twice.

"I think this book club just turned into a support group."
Our group for foster and adopted teens


TEACHER'S GUIDES
A teacher's guide for the classroom

Survival Meditations for Parents of Teens
Click here to read more excerpts and preface

FAVORITE QUOTES


"There's nothing wrong with teenagers that trying to reason with them won't aggravate."
Anonymous

"The best subsitute for experience is being sixteen."
Raymond Duncan

HOW I BECAME A WRITER


I began writing over fourteen years ago, when my two boys were only four and two. I would grab a few minutes and write a poem--this is all I had time for!
Eventually I started writing more at home when my children were in school, in between my part-time family therapy practice. After writing a dozen articles, a newspaper column, and personal essays, I began to shift my focus to larger more complex works, blending my belief in God/​the universe/​a higher power into my writing both fiction and non-fiction. Writing is something I do every day; I can't imagine a life without it. But I also find that my experiences as a parent, a "spiritual" person, and a therapist only helps my writing get stronger. When I can blend all of those gifts together, I feel the most satisfied and complete.